Developing Yourself:

Your Wheel of Life

Your Character and Personality

Qualities that Constitute an Effective Person

By: Vadim Kotelnikov

Founder, Ten3 Business e-Coach – Your 360 Achievement Catalyst!

 

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."

 – Oliver Wendell Holmes

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Pearls of Wisdom

 East

The thought manifests as the word; The word manifests as the deed; The deed develops into habit; And habit hardens into character. So watch the thought and its ways with care, And let it spring from love born out of concern for all beings.

~ Buddha

High-minded actions, ideal qualities, and sacred thoughts are basic foundations of character.

~ Sri Sathya Sai Baba

Only the wisest and the stupidest of men never change.

~ Confucius

Greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world.

~ Jesus Christ

West

Refrain from doing ill; for one all powerful reason, lest our children should copy our misdeeds; we are all to prone to imitate whatever is base and depraved.

~ Juvenal

The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but were he stands at times of challenge and controversy.

~ Marin Luter King

Every man alone is sincere; at the entrance of a second person hypocrisy begins.

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Man is not the sum of what he has but the totality of what he does not yet have, of what he might have.

~ Jean-Paul Sartre

Three Categories of Leadership Attributes

The ARE-KNOW-DO approach

 

Inspirational Quotes

Attitude

  • Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character... More

Buddha on Conquering

Your Character Ethic and Personality Ethic

The elements of Personality Ethic, such as communication skills, influence strategies, and positive thinking, are essential for success, but these are secondary, not primary traits.

 

"You can pick up quick, easy techniques that may work in short-term situations. But secondary traits alone have no permanent worth in long-term relationships. Eventually, if there isn't deep integrity and fundamental character strength, the challenges of life will cause true motives to surface and human relationships failure will replace short-term success," says Kenneth Blanchard.1

Only basic goodness gives life to techniques. To achieve great results, focus first on yourself – your beliefs and values, your deepest motives and perceptions – and then on your techniques.

There are two main paths of the Personality Ethic:

  1. Human and public relations techniques (e.g. communication skills; influence strategies)

  2. Positive Mental Attitude (PMA)

Buddha's Path to Liberation

From right understanding proceeds right thought;

from right thought proceeds right speech;

from right speech proceeds right action;

from right action proceeds right livelihood;

from right livelihood proceeds right effort;

from right effort proceeds right awareness;

from right awareness proceeds right concentration;

from right concentration proceeds right wisdom;

from right wisdom proceeds right liberation.

Jesus on Love

There is only one love that loves unconditionally — the love of the Divine. You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. A second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ The entire law and all the demands of the prophets are based on these two commandments... More

Win-Win Mindset

Win-Win as a frame of mind which constantly seeks mutual benefit in all human interactions. To grow a Win-Win mindset, you need to focus on the development of three character traits... More

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Love to Live

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World Cultures: Great Characters

Rama (Hinduism)

 

 

 

References:

  1. "Leadership and The One Minute Manager", Kenneth Blanchard

  2. "Management of Organizational Behavior: Utilizing Human Resources", Paul Hersey and Kenneth Blanchard

  3. "Have a Win-Win Mindset," Next S Business Considerations

  4. "Unleash Your Greatness," Mike Litman

 

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