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Confucius
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Character
& Personality
By nature, men are nearly alike; by practice, they get to be wide apart.
Wisdom,
compassion,
and courage are
the three universally recognized moral qualities of men.
The superior man is modest in his speech,
but exceeds in his
actions.
The superior man is satisfied and composed;
the mean man is always full of distress.
Life is
really simple, but men insist on making it complicated.
The Wheel of Life: Eastern vs. Western View
There are three things which the superior man
guards against. In youth...lust. When he is strong...quarrelsomeness.
When he is old...covetousness.
Without an acquaintance with the rules of
propriety, it is impossible for the character to be established.
When we see men of worth, we should think
of equaling them; when we see men of a contrary character, we should
turn inwards and examine ourselves.
Success,
Failure
A man who has committed a mistake and
doesn't correct it, is committing another mistake.
Failure as a Stepping Stone to Success
When you have faults, do not fear to
abandon them.
What the superior man seeks is in himself;
what the small man seeks is in others.
Study the past if you would define the
future.
The Wheel of Personal Success
If a man take no thought about what is
distant, he will find sorrow near at hand
The cautious seldom err.
When a man's knowledge is sufficient to
attain, and his virtue is not sufficient to enable him to hold, whatever
he may have gained, he will lose again.
He who will not economize will have to
agonize.
Virtue
To be able under all circumstances to
practice five things constitutes perfect virtue; these five things are
gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness and kindness.
He who exercises government by means of his
virtue may be compared to the north polar star, which keeps its place
and all the stars turn towards it.
Is virtue a thing remote? I wish to be
virtuous, and lo! Virtue is at hand.
Hold faithfulness and sincerity as first
principles.
The firm, the enduring, the
simple,
and the modest are near to virtue.
I have not seen a person who loved virtue,
or one who hated what was not virtuous. He who loved virtue would esteem
nothing above it...
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Knowledge,
Learning
I hear and I forget. I see and I remember.
I do and I understand.
Real knowledge is to know the extent of
one's ignorance.
They must often change who would be
constant in
happiness
or wisdom...
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Communication
He who speaks without modesty will find it
difficult to make his words good.
Silence is a true friend who never betrays...
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Yin and Yang of Communication
Relationships
Forget injuries, never forget kindnesses.
When anger rises, think of the
consequences.
Do not impose on others what you yourself
do not desire...
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Your People Skills 360
If a man withdraws his mind from the
love of beauty, and applies it as sincerely to the love
of the virtuous; if, in serving his parents, he can exert his utmost
strength; if, in serving his prince, he can devote his life; if in his
intercourse with his friends, his words are sincere – although men say
that he has not learned, I will certainly say that he has.
Achievement
The man who moves a mountain begins by
carrying away small stones.
It does not matter how slowly you go so
long as you
do not stop.
The man of wisdom is never in two minds
about right and wrong; the man of benevolence never worries about the
future; the man of
courage is
never afraid.
The superior man is distressed by the
limitations of his ability; he is not distressed by the fact that men do
not recognize the ability that he has.
The Three Armies can be deprived of their
commanding officer, but even a common man cannot be deprived of his
purpose.
COCA Principle of Achievement
The superior man, when resting in safety,
does not forget that danger may come. When in a state of security he
does not forget the possibility of ruin. When all is orderly, he does
not forget that disorder may come. Thus his person is not endangered,
and his States and all their clans are preserved.
The superior man cannot be known in little
matters, but he may be entrusted with great concerns. The small man may
not be entrusted with great concerns, but he may be known in little
matters.
There is one single thread binding my way
together...the way of the Master consists in doing one’s best...that is
all.
Wheresoever you go,
go with all your heart.
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About Confucius
Confucius, or Kung Fu Tzu, (born Kong Qiu, styled Zhong Ni) was born in the
village of Zou in the country of Lu in 551 B.C., a poor descendant of a
deposed noble family.
His
original name was K'ung Ch'iu. His father, commander of a district in Lu,
died three years after Confucius was born, leaving the family in poverty;
but Confucius nevertheless received a fine education. He was married at the
age of 19 and had one son and two daughters.
As a child, he held make-believe temple rituals. Later on, he
worked as a keeper of a market. Then he was
a farm worker who took care of parks and farm animals. When he was 20, he
worked for the governor of his district.
As a young adult, he quickly earned a
reputation for fairness, politeness and love of learning, and he was reputed
to be quite tall. His mother died in 527 BC, and after a period of mourning
he began his career as a teacher, usually traveling about and instructing
the small body of disciples that had gathered around him. Living as he did
in the second half of the Zhou (Chou) dynasty (1027-256 BC), when feudalism
degenerated in China and intrigue and vice were rampant, Confucius deplored
the contemporary disorder and lack of moral standards. He came to believe
that the only remedy was to convert people once more to the principles and
precepts of the sages of antiquity. He therefore lectured to his pupils on
the ancient classics. His fame as a man of learning and character and his
reverence for Chinese ideals and customs soon spread through the
principality of Lu.
Confucius is famous for his philosophy because he made many wise sayings
in ancient China that helped many people learn about nature, the world,
and the human behavior. He also helped the government and the emperor by
teaching them lessons on how the emperor should rule his kingdom
successfully. He traveled extensively and studied at the imperial
capital, Zhou, where he met and spoke with
Lao Tzu, the founder of Taoism.
The Tao of Business Success
Upon his return to Lu, he gained renown as a
teacher, but when he was 35, Duke Zhao of Lu led his country to war, was
routed and fled to the neighboring country of Qi; in the disorder following
the battle, Confucius followed. Duke Zhao frequently came to him for advice,
but upon counsel of one of his ministers, he decided against granting land
to Confucius and gradually stopped seeking his counsel. When other nobles
began plotting against Confucius' position, Duke Zhao refused to intervene,
and Confucius returned to Lu. But conditions there were no better than
before, and Confucius retired from public life to concentrate on teaching
and studying.
At age 50, he was approached by the Baron of Qi
to help defend against a rebellion, but he declined. He was later made a
city magistrate by the new Duke of Lu, and under his administration the city
flourished; he was promoted several times, eventually becoming Grand
Secretary of Justice and, at age 56, Chief Minister of Lu. His
administration was successful; reforms were introduced, justice was fairly
dispensed, and crime was almost eliminated. Neighboring countries began to
worry that Lu would become too powerful, and they sent messengers with gifts
and dancers to distract the duke during a sacrifice holiday. When the duke
abandoned his duties to receive the messengers, Confucius resigned and left
the country. Confucius left his office in 496 BC, traveling about and
teaching, vainly hoping that some other prince would allow him to undertake
measures of reform. In 484 BC, after a fruitless search for an ideal ruler,
he returned for the last time to Lu.
Confucius spent the five years wandering China with his disciples, finding
that his presence at royal courts was rarely tolerated for long before
nobles would begin plotting to drive him out or have him killed. He was
arrested once and jailed for five days, and at 62 he was pursued, along with
his disciples, into the countryside by a band of soldiers sent by jealous
nobles, until he was able to send a messenger to the sympathetic king of a
nearby country, who sent his own soldiers to rescue them. Once again,
Confucius was to be given land but was denied it upon counsel of another
high minister. After further wanderings, he eventually returned to Lu at age
67. Although he was welcomed there and chose to remain, he was not offered
public office again, nor did he seek it. Instead he spent the rest of his
years teaching and, finally, writing. He died at 72.
After Confucius died, he was buried in a grave
in the city of Ch'uFu, Shandong. Today the site of his final resting place
is the beautiful K'ung Forest.
Yet, when the philosopher died, many people
honored all of Confucius' work by building temples in every city in China to
honor Confucius. Since Confucius' teachings and philosophy was so advanced,
it was the education for China for 2,000 years. It is called
Confucianism.
Confucius did not put into writing the
principles of his philosophy; these were handed down only through his
disciples.
The Lun Yü (Analects), a work compiled by some
of his disciples, is considered the most reliable source of information
about his life and teachings. One of the historical works that he is said to
have compiled and edited, the Ch'un Ch'iu (Spring and Autumn Annals), is an
annalistic account of Chinese history in the state of Lu from 722 to 481 BC.
In learning he wished to be known as a transmitter rather than as a creator,
and he therefore revived the study of the ancient books. His own teachings,
together with those of his main disciples, are found in the Shih Shu (Four
Books) of Confucian literature, which became the textbooks of later Chinese
generations.
Confucius About
Confucius taught in his school for many years.
His theories and principles were spread throughout China by his disciples,
and soon many people learned from his wise sayings. One of his rules said,
"If you governed your province well and treat your people kindly, you
kingdom shall not lose any war. If you govern selfishly to your people, you
kingdom will not only lose a war, but your people will break away from your
kingdom." He had also said a wise phrase called the golden rule that is
still being used as a rule today. It said, "A man should practice what he
preaches, but a man should also preach what he practices."
One day, his students and he passed a grave
where they saw a women weeping at a gravestone. She told Confucius that her
husband, her husband's father, and her son were killed by a tiger. When
Confucius asked her why she didn't leave such a fated spot, she answered
that in this place there was no oppressive government. Confucius said,"
Remember this my child. An oppressive government is fiercer and more feared
than a tiger." That meant that the government in the woman's province did
not rule the province well. So Confucius said that the government was more
feared than a tiger. This was one of the many events he had to give a person
a lesson.
Confucius taught the great value of the power of example. Rulers, he said,
can be great only if they themselves lead exemplary lives, and were they
willing to be guided by moral principles, their states would inevitably
become prosperous and happy. Confucius himself had a simple moral and
political teaching: to love others; to honor one's parents; to do what is
right instead of what is of advantage; to practice "reciprocity," i.e.
"don't do to others what you would not want yourself"; to rule by moral
example (dé) instead of by force and violence; and so forth. Confucius
thought that a ruler who had to resort to force had already failed as a
ruler. "Your job is to govern, not to kill."
Confucius thought that government by laws and
punishments could keep people in line, but government by example of virtue (dé)
and good manners (li) would enable them to control themselves (Analects
II:3). "The way the wind blows, that's the way the grass bends" (Analects
XII:19). Self-control, indeed, is the basis of all the industrious virtues
that have made the Chinese people economically successful whenever they have
been allowed to prosper. Unfortunately, although Confucius himself says,
"Wealth and high station are what men desire" (Analects, IV:5), later
Confucians turned warnings against the temptation of profit (lì)
into a condemnation of profit, which meant that their influence was
often turned against the development of Chinese industry and commerce.
Thus, Confucians themselves were perfectly
happy to seek "high station," while stiffling the ability of ordinary
Chinese to produce "wealth."
While the essence of morality is the limitation
of self-interest, Confucius is clear that this does not mean complete denial
of self. We have already seen a hint of this with Analects XV:23,
which begins with the character for "self" and ends with the characters for
"others" (or "persons"). If what you don't want for yourself, you shouldn't
to do others, then you would like others to do for you what you would indeed
like for yourself. Helping oneself and others at the same time is
characteristic of the "worldliness" of Confucianism and Chinese
civilization.
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