I asked God to make my handicapped child whole. God said, no. His spirit is whole, his body is only temporary.

I asked God to grant me patience. God said, no. Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn’t granted, it is earned.

I asked God to give me happiness. God said, no. I give you blessings, happiness is up to you.

I asked God to spare the pain. God said, no. Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.

I asked God to make my spirit grow. God said, no. You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.

I asked for all things that I might enjoy life. God said, no. I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.