Change Management:

Behavioral Change

Changing Yourself

Leading Change: Starting with Yourself

By: Vadim Kotelnikov

Founder, Ten3 Business e-Coach – Inspiration, Achievement, Innovation and Happiness unlimited!


"I used to say, 'I sure hope things will change.' Then I learned that the only way things are going to change for me is when I change." ~ Jim Rohn

"To change ourselves effectively, we first had to change our perceptions." ~ Stephen Covey

"You can conquer others with power, but it takes true strength to conquer yourself." ~ Lau Tzu

"They must often change who would be constant in happiness or wisdom." ~ Confucius


NLP Technology of Achievement

Start with Yourself

  • Be an example of what is wanted – you are the only thing in the system that you can absolutely change

  • Learn from everyday events, treat every situation as an opportunity to learn and to gain some new choices and flexibility

  • Don't rely just on the feedback you receive, solicit feedback actively

  • Increase flexibility in your thinking and your actions

The Wheel of Personal Success

NLP Technology of Achievement

Six Neuro Logical Levels of Change

By Robert Dilts

  1. Spiritual / purpose – who else?

  2. Identity / mission – who?

  3. Belief systems and values – why?

  4. Capabilities – how?

  5. Behavior – what?

  6. Environment – where?


Ask Yourself

By James Allen, the Author of As a Man Thinketh

For true success ask yourself these four questions:

  1. Why?

  2. Why not?

  3. Why not me?

  4. Why not now?... More

Be Different and Make a Difference!

NLP Technology of Achievement

Personal Change: Your Empowering Beliefs

  1. 'I enjoy new ideas'

  2. 'I have an open mind'

  3. 'I know I can change'

  4. 'I've learnt so much before, and I use every opportunity to learn more

 Discover more!


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Dale Carnegie's 10 Happiness Advices

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20 Legacy Statements

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Buddha's Path To Liberation

Love to Live

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Kids Little Instructions on Life

Success Secrets

Achiever: 8 Winning Habits

12 Pillars of Success

The Law of Belief

Combine Life Vision and Life Strategy

The Golden Hour

How To Make Better Decisions

The 4 Most Deadly Words

Act from a Sense of Urgency

3 Rules for Developing Courage

21 Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires

The Law of Forced Efficiency

Don't Quit


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Get Away from Old Ideas

People Skills

Building Relationships

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10-Step Yoga Guideline for Resolving Inner and Outer Conflict

Change Management

How Do I Change?

Creating Change

Change Program

Resistance To Change

Leading Change

Transformational Leadership

Effective Leadership

12 Effective Leadership Roles

Develop a Clear Vision

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Humility – the Most Beautiful Word in the English Language


Do What You Love To Do and Make a Difference

Entrepreneurial Creativity

Modern Manager

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Buddha about Conquering

If one should conquer thousands in battle, and if another should conquer only himself, his indeed is the greatest victory... More

Why Changing Yourself?

You cannot become what you want to be by remaining what you are.

Leader 360

The best place to start change is with yourself. If whatever you do doesn't work, you must be flexible – you must change your action plan if the current one does not produce the required results. If you want other people to change, you must be prepared to make the first step yourself. If you cannot change your environment, you should change your attitude.


Yin and Yang of Change Management

Life-Business Synergy

Learn from feedback, rediscover and reinvent... More

Buddha's Path To Liberation

From right understanding proceeds right thought;

from right thought proceeds right speech;

from right speech proceeds right action... More

Buddhism: Spiritual Growth

Buddha taught that "the one who has conquered himself is a far greater hero than he who defeated a thousand times a thousand men." He recognized the ego presence that feels threatened by and therefore fears the truth. This mental power is resisting the simple spiritual act of shining the light of consciousness toward your ultimate inner source.

The Wheel of Life: Eastern vs. Western View

"To see reality clearly, we must learn to let go of all our cherished beliefs about who we are and what life in general is all about. We can't hold one thing tightly in our grasp, and at the same time reach out and take something new. We must let go of and put aside what we are grasping, in order to be able to receive something that we want or need much more. All spiritual and psychological growth requires a letting go of a limited belief in order to open up and receive a more expansive belief – or even better, a direct experience of reality that makes all beliefs unnecessary. This is the challenge of spiritual growth: to enlighten the ego to where it realizes, through more and more meditative experience, that letting go of judgments about reality and embracing reality itself, is not only worthwhile but essential to a truly fulfilling life."4

Buddha observed, however, that the ego is fearful of its own demise – and will fight hard to preserve its groundling. We should learn how to conquer these fears within us that resist change.

Lama Surya Das puts it this way in his book Awakening the Buddha Within: 'As you walk the inner path of awakening, recognize that it is most definitely a heroic journey. You must be prepared to make sacrifices, and yes, you must be prepared to change. Just as a caterpillar must shed its familiar cocoon in order to become a butterfly and fly, you must be willing to change and shed the hard armor of self-centered egotism. As compelling as the inner journey is, it can be difficult because it brings you face to face with reality. It brings you face to face with who you really are."

Modern Management: 12 Breakthrough Ideas for the New Economy

Source: Harvard Economic Review Executive summary by Anastasia Bibikova.

The best ideas related to the practice of management. If you know somebody has used them, don’t try to repeat. Simply consider them, debate them and let them inspire your own thinking!...

12. Management and the Self: New generation style of management – is self-management and self-coaching. You can’t change the others and the world around without changing yourself.  So start with your own consciousness!... More


Be the Best Possible

10 Tips by Ten3 NZ Ltd.

  • Know who you are. Being inwardly happy (knowing you are competent and capable) automatically improves levels of quality and excellence in your work.  Understand that inner happiness only comes about via Self esteem + Self respect + Personal Pride.  Get these ingredients right and with careful written planning the rest will simply fall into place... More

Positive Emotions

Positive emotional energy is the key to health, happiness and wellbeing. The more positive you are, the better your life will be in every area... More

Yin and Yang of Happiness

Using NLP

NLP is the psychology of excellence and the technology of achievement and success. NLP is an accessible model to enhance effective communication, personal change and personal development... More

NLP Solutions: Neuro Logical Levels of Change

The NLP Technology of Achievement was specially developed to discover how people can excel, and most particularly when managing change – how to create the 'difference that makes the difference'.

One of the NLP leading thinkers, Robert Dilts, suggests that there are six neuro logical levels of learning, communication and change. In a hierarchical order, they are: purpose, mission, beliefs and values, capabilities, behavior, and environment. Any changes made at the higher levels will have a greater influence on you than those made at the lower levels.

NLP Solutions: Reframing

Reframing is a powerful technique to enable change. Different levels of experience influence the way we live our lives. The value of reframing is being able to consider an issue from many different aspects. Reframing is a way of getting people to think: 'How else can I do or consider this?'... More

Personal Balanced Scorecard

The formulation and use of the personal balanced scorecard make up the first step in change management.

First, it enables a person to distance himself from his mindsets – his mental framework, assumptions and beliefs coloring the world – and allows him to listen effectively to his inner voice. This helps him to improve his behavior and create his own future. After all, we become more creative as we become more conscious of ourselves, our inner processes and motives. By scrutinizing ourselves, and achieving a better self-image and self-knowledge, we improve our learning ability. Self-knowledge means self-awareness. Formulating one’s personal ambition is a search for one’s identity. Understanding one’s identity is the key to action.

80/20 Principle: 10 Golden Rules for Successful Carriers

  1. Identify where 20% of efforts gives 80% of returns... More