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"The superior man is
firm in the right way, and not merely firm."
To be able under all circumstances to
practice five things constitutes perfect virtue; these five things are
gravity, generosity of soul, sincerity, earnestness and kindness.
are the three universally recognized moral qualities of men.
If a man withdraws his mind from the
love of beauty, and applies it as sincerely to
the love of the virtuous; if, in serving his parents, he can exert his
utmost strength; if, in serving his prince, he can devote his life; if
in his intercourse with his friends, his words are sincere – although
men say that he has not learned, I will certainly say that he has.
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is really simple, but men insist on making it complicated.
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the three universally recognized moral qualities of men.
to win, the desire to
succeed, the urge to reach your full potential... these are the keys
that will unlock the door to
By nature, men are nearly alike; by
practice, they get to be wide apart.
The superior man thinks always of virtue;
the common man thinks of comfort.
To see what is right, and not to do it, is
courage or of
Our greatest glory is not in never falling,
rising every time we fall.
Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble
Success depends upon previous
preparation, and without such preparation there is sure to be failure.
Wheresoever you go,
go with all your heart.
Choose a job you love, and you will never have to work a day in your
To go beyond is as wrong as to fall short.
There is one single thread binding my way
together...the way of the Master consists in
doing one’s best...that is all.
I hear and I forget. I see and I remember.
I do and I understand.
Learn as though
you would never be able to master it; hold it as though you would be in
fear of losing it.
Real knowledge is to know the extent of one's ignorance.
The more man
meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the
world at large.
Study the past if you would divine the
They must often change who would be
I am not one who was born in the possession
knowledge; I am one who is fond of
antiquity, and earnest in seeking it there.
He who merely knows right principles is not
equal to him who loves them.
without thought is labor lost; thought without learning is perilous.
Ignorance is the night of the mind, but a
night without moon and star.
He who learns but does not
think, is lost! He who thinks but does not
learn is in great danger.
The people may be made to follow a path of
action, but they may not be made to understand it.
Yin-Yang of Communication
The superior man is modest in his speech,
but excels in his
[The superior man] acts before he speaks,
and afterwards speaks according to his actions.
Speak the truth, do not yield to anger;
give, if thou art asked for little; by these three steps thou wilt go
near the gods.
Yin-Yang of Listening
Virtue is not left to stand alone. He who
practices it will have neighbors.
Forget injuries, never forget kindnesses.
Respect yourself and others will respect
It is more shameful to distrust our friends
than to be deceived by them.
It is not the failure of others to
appreciate your abilities that should trouble you, but rather your
failure to appreciate theirs.
When anger rises, think of the
Do not impose on others what you yourself
do not desire.
Yin-Yang of Influencing People
To govern is to be correct. If you set an
example by being correct, who would dare remain incorrect?
or Kung Fu Tzu, (born Kong Qiu, styled Zhong Ni) was born in the village of
Zou in the country of Lu in 551 B.C., a poor descendant of a deposed noble
family. His original name was K'ung Ch'iu. His father, commander of a
district in Lu, died three years after Confucius was born, leaving the
family in poverty; but Confucius nevertheless received a fine education. He
was married at the age of 19 and had one son and two daughters.
As a child, he held make-believe temple
rituals. Later on, he
worked as a keeper of a market. Then he was
a farm worker who took care of parks and farm animals. When he was 20, he
worked for the governor of his district.
As a young adult, he quickly earned a
reputation for fairness, politeness and love of learning, and he was reputed
to be quite tall. His mother died in 527 BC, and after a period of mourning
he began his career as a teacher, usually traveling about and instructing
the small body of disciples that had gathered around him.
Living as he did
in the second half of the Zhou (Chou) dynasty (1027-256 BC), when feudalism
degenerated in China and intrigue and vice were rampant, Confucius deplored
the contemporary disorder and lack of moral standards. He came to believe
that the only remedy was to convert people once more to the principles and
precepts of the sages of antiquity. He therefore lectured to his pupils on
the ancient classics. His fame as a man of learning and character and his
reverence for Chinese ideals and customs soon spread through the
principality of Lu.
Confucius is famous for his philosophy because
he made many wise sayings in ancient China that helped many people learn
about nature, the world, and the human behavior. He also helped the
government and the emperor by teaching them lessons on how the emperor
should rule his kingdom successfully. He traveled extensively and studied at
the imperial capital, Zhou, where he met and spoke with
Lao Tzu, the founder of
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Upon his return to Lu, he gained renown as a
teacher, but when he was 35, Duke Zhao of Lu led his country to war, was
routed and fled to the neighboring country of Qi; in the disorder following
the battle, Confucius followed. Duke Zhao frequently came to him for advice,
but upon counsel of one of his ministers, he decided against granting land
to Confucius and gradually stopped seeking his counsel. When other nobles
began plotting against Confucius' position, Duke Zhao refused to intervene,
and Confucius returned to Lu. But conditions there were no better than
before, and Confucius retired from public life to concentrate on teaching
At age 50, he was approached by the Baron of Qi
to help defend against a rebellion, but he declined. He was later made a
city magistrate by the new Duke of Lu, and under his administration the city
flourished; he was promoted several times, eventually becoming Grand
Secretary of Justice and, at age 56, Chief Minister of Lu. His
administration was successful; reforms were introduced, justice was fairly
dispensed, and crime was almost eliminated. Neighboring countries began to
worry that Lu would become too powerful, and they sent messengers with gifts
and dancers to distract the duke during a sacrifice holiday. When the duke
abandoned his duties to receive the messengers, Confucius resigned and left
the country. Confucius left his office in 496 BC, traveling about and
teaching, vainly hoping that some other prince would allow him to undertake
measures of reform. In 484 BC, after a fruitless search for an ideal ruler,
he returned for the last time to Lu.
Confucius spent the five years wandering China
with his disciples, finding that his presence at royal courts was rarely
tolerated for long before nobles would begin plotting to drive him out or
have him killed. He was arrested once and jailed for five days, and at 62 he
was pursued, along with his disciples, into the countryside by a band of
soldiers sent by jealous nobles, until he was able to send a messenger to
the sympathetic king of a nearby country, who sent his own soldiers to
rescue them. Once again, Confucius was to be given land but was denied it
upon counsel of another high minister. After further wanderings, he
eventually returned to Lu at age 67. Although he was welcomed there and
chose to remain, he was not offered public office again, nor did he seek it.
Instead he spent the rest of his years teaching and, finally, writing. He
died at 72.
After Confucius died, he was buried in a grave
in the city of Ch'uFu, Shandong. Today the site of his final resting place
is the beautiful K'ung Forest.
Yet, when the philosopher died, many people
honored all of Confucius' work by building temples in every city in China to
honor Confucius. Since Confucius' teachings and philosophy was so advanced,
it was the education for China for 2,000 years. It is called
Confucius did not put into writing the
principles of his philosophy; these were handed down only through his
The Lun Yü (Analects), a work compiled by some
of his disciples, is considered the most reliable source of information
about his life and teachings. One of the historical works that he is said to
have compiled and edited, the Ch'un Ch'iu (Spring and Autumn Annals), is an
annalistic account of Chinese history in the state of Lu from 722 to 481 BC.
In learning he wished to be known as a transmitter rather than as a creator,
and he therefore revived the study of the ancient books. His own teachings,
together with those of his main disciples, are found in the Shih Shu (Four
Books) of Confucian literature, which became the textbooks of later Chinese
Confucius taught in his school for many years.
His theories and principles were spread throughout China by his disciples,
and soon many people learned from his wise sayings. One of his rules said,
"If you governed your province well and treat your people kindly, you
kingdom shall not lose any war. If you govern selfishly to your people, you
kingdom will not only lose a war, but your people will break away from your
kingdom." He had also said a wise phrase called the golden rule that is
still being used as a rule today. It said, "A man should practice what he
preaches, but a man should also preach what he practices."
One day, his students and he passed a grave
where they saw a women weeping at a gravestone. She told Confucius that her
husband, her husband's father, and her son were killed by a tiger. When
Confucius asked her why she didn't leave such a fated spot, she answered
that in this place there was no oppressive government. Confucius said,"
Remember this my child. An oppressive government is fiercer and more feared
than a tiger." That meant that the government in the woman's province did
not rule the province well. So Confucius said that the government was more
feared than a tiger. This was one of the many events he had to give a person
Confucius taught the great value of the power
of example. Rulers, he said, can be great only if they themselves lead
exemplary lives, and were they willing to be guided by moral principles,
their states would inevitably become prosperous and happy. Confucius himself
had a simple moral and political teaching: to love others; to honor one's
parents; to do what is right instead of what is of advantage; to practice
"reciprocity," i.e. "don't do to others what you would not want yourself";
to rule by moral example (dé) instead of by force and violence; and so
forth. Confucius thought that a ruler who had to resort to force had already
failed as a ruler. "Your job is to govern, not to kill."
Confucius thought that government by laws and
punishments could keep people in line, but government by example of virtue (dé)
and good manners (li) would enable them to control themselves (Analects
II:3). "The way the wind blows, that's the way the grass bends" (Analects
XII:19). Self-control, indeed, is the basis of all the industrious virtues
that have made the Chinese people economically successful whenever they have
been allowed to prosper. Unfortunately, although Confucius himself says,
"Wealth and high station are what men desire" (Analects, IV:5), later
Confucians turned warnings against the temptation of profit (lì)
into a condemnation of profit, which meant that their influence was
often turned against the development of Chinese industry and commerce. Thus,
Confucians themselves were perfectly happy to seek "high station," while
stiffling the ability of ordinary Chinese to produce "wealth."
While the essence of morality is the limitation
of self-interest, Confucius is clear that this does not mean complete denial
of self. We have already seen a hint of this with Analects XV:23,
which begins with the character for "self" and ends with the characters for
"others" (or "persons"). If what you don't want for yourself, you shouldn't
to do others, then you would like others to do for you what you would indeed
like for yourself. Helping oneself and others at the same time is
characteristic of the "worldliness" of Confucianism and Chinese