"What lies behind us and
what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes
To discover your true ‒ divine ‒ self, get rid of all your attitudes and thoughts that
are not nurtured by love...
Beliefs are the
assumptions we make about ourselves, about others in the world and about how
we expect things to be.
"These assumptions determine the way we behave and
shape our decision-making process.
They are often based on emotions rather than facts. We tend to notice
'facts' that reinforce our beliefs."7...
The Way Our
The language of brain are pictures, sounds, feelings, tastes
and smells, i.e. inputs from your senses. Your brain cannot work with
negative information, i.e. inputs you haven't experienced. It can work only
with positive information, i.e. "information from the experiences of your
five senses, which it then manipulates in the emotional blender we call the
– the First Step to Influencing Others
knowing yourself then only can you know
other people and influence and share
your experiences with them...
Business Plan: Successful
is blind –
marriage is the eye-opener." –
Milestones Completed and Future Plans:
"As soon as you find the one to marry, just shut up
Reading People – Listen Intently to the
Specific Words People Use10
Ask a simple
open-ended question. Then,
be quiet and make note of the exact words the other person uses. When a
person answers an open-ended question, he stops focusing outward and goes
inside his mind. At that instant, he becomes relatively unaware of the words
he uses. Those words point back in time to meaningful memories and emotional
Just listen. Most people tell you more about themselves than
they think. Add those words to the facial expressions and
body language. What you get is the
beginning of an in-depth psychological profile. Once you get that, you will
get a much better understanding of how to build
trust; how to
connect to that person; what to
promise, and how to fulfill those promises...
There are many models for understanding and characterizing
the styles of interaction different people prefer to employ. A widely used
approach is the Myers-Briggs Type
Indicator (MBTI). It is based on the following four dimensions of a
person's preferred approach to life.
How you are energized (Extrovert vs. Introvert)
What you pay attention to (Sensing vs. Intuition)
How you make decisions (Thinking vs. Feeling)
How you live and work (Judgment vs. Perceptions)...
Business Plan: Success in Love
Strategy: "If men
knew all that women think, they'd be twenty times more daring."
"Women are made to be loved, not understood."
12 Tips for Global Travelers
Learn something about the country,
local customs, and
cultural sensitivities to avoid making faux pas while
The purpose of the Enneagram is self-knowledge that can be
used to further your spiritual growth, and your understanding and compassion
of others. This system can be applied for analyzing and influencing
unconscious strategies and behavior of not only people but also
organizations, cultures, and countries...
NLP Technology of Achievement: Accessing Cues...
Connecting With People...
Integral Yoga and Self-Awareness...
Managing Cross-Cultural Differences...
Listening To What Is
Not Being Said...